Welcome back to Vitamin G, where we talk about sex and the wonders that come from being comfortable with our bodies, and this time we’re getting a little wet. Listen, sex is already taboo, but somebody has to break the fourth wall. This week, we will be honest and open about the ins and outs of squirting.
There has been an ongoing debate for several years on squirting, and questions have risen about this sexual response that insinuates the act itself is just diluted pee during an orgasm. This desensitization comes from the glorification of porn that has created an ongoing skepticism around squirting. The absence of sexual inquisition derives from the discomfort and the lackluster amount of research that society still struggles with regarding the exploration of female pleasure.
Many researchers have argued both angles to the point that it has confused society. This confusion has a tremendous effect on women as it can devalue one’s sense of pleasure and may shame them into withholding certain urges during sexual encounters. Studies have shown in the chemical analysis that the fluids gathered contained some of the same chemical components in urination but technically different from urination. In addition, another study was conducted in 2017 that advocates that female ejaculation is the outflow of a liquid through the urethra at the moment of orgasm.
According to a Chemical Anatomy article in April 2022, there is evidence that squirting and female ejaculation are two different body processes. This debate left many researchers to believe that there is a level of involuntary urination that is released as the orgasm takes place before, during, or after sex with marginal amounts of female prostate secretions. This sexual response is not like vaginal lubrication, where the vagina secretes a milky-white fluid. These two types of ejaculations come from the secretion from the Skene’s glands near the G-Spot and occur when aroused during or after sex.
So now that science is out of the way, let’s get to sexual liberation of your body. Exploring your body can be exciting once you know the proper techniques that work best for you. Let’s dive into some alternative methods to achieve our ultimate climax either by ourselves and double the luck with a partner to get double the pleasure.
As you discover new ways to please yourself and increase your climatic peak, Girls United wants to give you some quick tips, suggestions, and advice that you can use by yourself or with a partner to achieve the best sexual experience ever.
Remember To Relax
You may struggle with being in your head too much during some sexual activities- understand that this is normal. Try tantric meditation or letting yourself be free and lose control over your body. Some music therapy during foreplay helps as well.
The Wetter, The Better
While some might have no issues with staying naturally lubricated, this is not the case for everyone, and that’s okay. One way to stay lubricated is to invest in high-quality lubricants that will keep you moist for both parties’ mutual pleasure.
Learn Your G-Spot
Stimulating the G-spot can be freeing and allow you to explore a new level of orgasm. If you are having trouble finding your G-spot, utilize some G-spot vibrators or you can use your fingers by applying pressure to the front wall of the vagina, and it should be within two to three inches inside. Once you find your G-spot, you might have a tingling sensation to pee, but stay in the race.
Stimulation Is Key
To intensify this urge, give yourself some extra TLC to your clitoris, and this will increase the odds of squirting. Either with a partner or by yourself, try to focus on the G-spot while stimulating the clitoris with a vibrator or dildo. If you feel the urge to pee, let the pressure build because you might be closer to the climb than you think.
Understand The PC Muscles
The pubococcygeus muscle is the muscle in the lower body that supports the bladder and rectum. You can do a PC muscle test by inserting your finger into the vagina. If this is uncomfortable, then you may struggle to relax your PC muscles, which is a key factor in female ejaculation. Working on your PC muscles with kegel balls might help with the “bearing down” motion of squirting. However, if you can squeeze your finger, your PC muscles are in great shape.
Identify Your Pleasure Preference
Some women may only orgasm through clitoral and external stimulation. However, allowing that pressure to build up near your G-spot can create a powerful orgasm through dildos or vibrators like the Rabbit, anal stimulations, or even dual stimulation towards the G-spot and clitoris toys and sexual acts can keep arousal high while you massage your sweet spots
Never Skip Foreplay
This is not a relay race. Learn to take your time with your partner by engaging in some blissful foreplay. Enjoy some spanking, caressing, and a steamy makeout session to get each other hot and bothered. Oral sex and vaginal massages can increase the blood flow, thus making your partner more relaxed to achieve their orgasm.
Don’t Be Afraid To Explore
As you navigate your hidden desires with your partner, you may find that all you needed was to become more intimate with one another. Sex can be an exciting adventure by experimenting with some role-playing, BDSM, S&M, or whatever sexual link you may like. These new and exciting levels of intimacy can create the most fulfilling sexual experience.
Let Go & Don’t Hold Back
This part can be the most initmatidayinh, but remember to communicate with your partner when you reach your peak. You are approaching the best part if you feel a gushing sensation. Keep that stimulation flowing, enjoy that sweet ecstasy, and celebrate- we have a squirt master!
About Amber: Amber Little is a writer, fashionista, and digital content creator. She has used her Journalism degree from Georgia State University and is pursuing a Masters Degree in Interior Design at SCAD to educate others through life and beauty.