Valentine’s Day is here, a time when romance fills the air and couples declare their love for one another. For many, it’s an opportunity to showcase their admiration for their partner on social media. While love can be illuminating and help us evolve into more vulnerable and connected versions of ourselves, it’s important to remember that self-love matters too. Surprisingly, statistics show that people under 35 are more likely to score in the lowest 25% of self-love ratings. So, don’t be the one feeling frustrated by all the teddy bears and balloons this year—embrace a challenge of your own and indulge in self-love.
In honor of this, Girls United has curated a list of solo date ideas to help you make the most of Valentine’s Day. These suggestions are all about celebrating yourself and fostering the connection you have with your own heart.
Indulge in a Spa Date
Answer the call for some self-care with a day at the spa. Whether you choose a massage, facial, or body treatment, take time to relax and unwind. Sip champagne, turn off your phone, and fully immerse yourself in the soothing experience. You deserve it!
Let a Movie Night Be Your Sweet Treat
Whether you opt for a movie theater that serves dinner and drinks or create a cozy atmosphere at home, let yourself enjoy a cinematic escape. Indulge in romance or action films, whatever you need to clear your mind and enjoy the moment.
Treat Yourself to a Night Out
Dig into your closet and dress up for a night on the town. Enjoy a delicious dinner at a fancy restaurant like Fogo de Chão. There’s no shame in treating yourself to a solo night out—it’s an opportunity to enjoy your own company and discover a place you might bring a future date.
Check Out an Entertainment Event
Spontaneity is key! Head to Ticketmaster and grab tickets for a concert or a comedy show. Or, check out a local amateur night for some laughs and surprises.
Take a Class to Learn a New Skill
Curiosity is a great motivator. Sign up for a pottery class or a floral arrangement workshop to enhance your home. Learning something new is not only fun but also a great way to expand your horizons.
Pamper Your Body
Focus on relaxing, rejuvenating, and releasing tension through movement. Try signing up for Pilates or cycling classes. Discover a new form of exercise that resonates with your body and helps you practice self-care.
Have a Photoshoot
Capture your inner vixen with a professional photoshoot. Choose something sexy to wear and create timeless memories through stunning photos. It’s all about celebrating your own beauty.
Visit a Museum
Feed your mind with art and culture by visiting a museum or gallery. Explore exhibits that showcase diverse cultures and creative expressions to inspire and enrich your own perspective.
Dance the Night Away
Put on your favorite red dress and head to the dance floor! Whether you go to a club or bar, enjoy a night of music and dancing. Even if you don’t meet someone special, you could still have your own 90s rom-com moment.
Embrace Nature and Treat Yourself to Ice Cream
Sometimes, all it takes is a walk in nature. Lace up your sneakers and take a hike, then reward yourself with a sweet treat, whether it’s ice cream or gelato. Indulge in something delicious and take in the fresh air.
Book a Staycation
Treat yourself to a getaway without leaving town. Book a staycation at a local luxury hotel like the Ritz-Carlton. Relax with room service, champagne, and a spa massage. Watch a movie in your robe and enjoy ice cream—you deserve to be pampered.
Go on a Solo Shopping Spree
Time for a little retail therapy! Whether it’s jewelry, beauty products, or fashion, treat yourself to something special. Enjoy a day of shopping and pampering like you’re the star of your own movie.
Do Something Nice for Someone
Self-love can also be about giving. Volunteer your time, babysit for a friend, or support a cause that’s close to your heart. Giving back is a powerful way to spread love and positivity.
Bake Yourself Some Treats
Stay in and enjoy the simple pleasure of baking. Try a new recipe and savor the process of creating something delicious. Share your sweet creations with friends or savor them all to yourself!
Host a Singles-Only Party
Not in the mood to be alone but want to avoid couples? Host a fun singles-only party. Create a lively atmosphere with music, drinks, and activities. You could even host themed awards like “Best Dressed” or “Most Memorable Ex Story,” and have guests make vision boards to share their goals and dreams.