The time is here and almost near. We either love it or absolutely hate it—NBA playoff season. For the lovers who are basketball fans, it’s the most exciting time of the year. For everyone else? It can feel like your man just entered a committed relationship with ESPN, his phone, and a very intense group chat called “Parlay Boys.” The obsession is real. If you’re not into sports, it’s easy to feel like you’re sitting court side alone.
Hear me out. Instead of trying to pull his attention away from the screen, try leaning into the moment. I’m no love coach, therapist, or licensed relationship expert, but I’ve been there. I went from rolling my eyes at layups to genuinely caring about who made the playoffs. If you can’t beat ’em, join ’em—you just might have more fun than you expected. Here’s how to make time for your partner during the NBA playoffs without feeling ignored, annoyed, or out of place.
1. Multitask Like a Pro
If you’d rather deep-clean your room than sit through four quarters of basketball, try this: spend time in the same space without forcing yourself to engage with the game. Do your skincare routine on the couch, scroll TikTok, or bring out your journal. Just being nearby while he watches the game shows effort—and keeps you connected without sacrificing your peace.
2. Learn Something New
You might not know the difference between a pick-and-roll and a travel violation. Your partner does—and he’ll probably love explaining it. Don’t be afraid to ask questions, even if they seem basic. You’d be surprised how intimate it can be to learn something your partner’s passionate about. You might end up screaming at the ref right along with him.
3. Host a Watch Night Your Way
If hosting is your love language, turn game night into a whole vibe. Think basketball-themed snacks, cute cups, and a few girlfriends over to join in. You don’t need to know the roster to create an atmosphere that everyone enjoys. It’s a great way to show your partner you’re willing to share in his interests—while keeping your personality in the mix.
4. Bet on It (Responsibly)
Sports betting isn’t for everyone. If you’re curious and have a few extra dollars to spare, try placing a small bet on who you think will win. You don’t have to go full-on bookie. A little friendly competition between you and your boo can turn the game into a bonding experience. Just don’t be mad when he takes his bet way too seriously.
5. Protect Your “Me Time” Too
Making time for your partner doesn’t mean putting your needs on the bench. If you’re craving a night out or just need some time away from the TV noise, say that! Balance is key. Relationships thrive when both people feel heard, supported, and understood. Support his interests while making sure yours get some love too.
From personal experience, I used to think the NBA was the ultimate snoozefest. You’d literally have to pay me to care. Now, I’m tuned in, tracking teams, and arguing over calls like it’s my job. I gave it a chance—and fell in love with more than just the man watching the game. I found a new way to connect, laugh, and make memories with him and even with my own family through sports.
Next time the game’s on, don’t fight it. Grab your snacks, throw on a jersey, and meet him on the couch. You might discover that playoff season isn’t the end of your quality time—it’s the start of a new kind of bonding.